{"id":4440,"date":"2025-12-01T16:52:48","date_gmt":"2025-12-01T16:52:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/?p=4440"},"modified":"2025-12-02T08:46:57","modified_gmt":"2025-12-02T08:46:57","slug":"three-ways-to-find-stillness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/three-ways-to-find-stillness\/","title":{"rendered":"Three Simple Ways to Find Stillness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Life is so busy, it&#8217;s easy to find yourself rushing around, finding that another day is over and the to-do list is still never ending. This time of year encourages us to do &#8216;more&#8217;: shop more, socialise more, buy more, do more, see more&#8230;it can be hard to keep up and before you know it, you&#8217;re burnt out and overwhelmed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are my three favourite ways to find some stillness and take a pause:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1. Take your time with a cup of tea \/ coffee<br><br>Whether you&#8217;re a morning coffee or tea person, take that time in silence. Don&#8217;t look at your phone, don&#8217;t even read a book. Sit for a while and either look out of a window or take some time to sit with your thoughts. For me, this always feels like I&#8217;ve closed a few tabs in my brain and I end up feeling lighter and more peaceful, even if it&#8217;s only taken 5 minutes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2. Say &#8216;no&#8217;<br><br>Realising that &#8216;no&#8217; is a complete sentence can be revolutionary. Reframing saying &#8216;no&#8217; to something as saying &#8216;yes&#8217; to something else can really help if you&#8217;re not used to that. For example &#8216;no&#8217; to going out or doing something when you just don&#8217;t feel like it or haven&#8217;t got the time, is really saying yes to prioritising your peace. And remember: A &#8220;no&#8221; very often is a &#8220;yes&#8221; to yourself!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">3. Notice your senses<br><br>I&#8217;m sure by now you&#8217;ve heard of mindfulness. But taking time to notice what you can see, smell, touch, hear and taste is a great way to get back into your body and find a pause. This works particularly well when outside, as nature brings an abundance of things to sense, but this exercise can be done anywhere to provide a moment of calm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are ENDLESS ways to find stillness, but the last thing you need is to add more to your &#8220;To Do&#8221; list. Try one of these simple ideas and let me know how it feels?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life is so busy, it&#8217;s easy to find yourself rushing around, finding that another day is over and the to-do list is still never ending. This time of year encourages us to do &#8216;more&#8217;: shop more, socialise more, buy more, do more, see more&#8230;it can be hard to keep up and before you know it, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4444,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4440","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4440","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4440"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4440\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4448,"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4440\/revisions\/4448"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4444"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4440"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4440"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thorstenenderlin.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4440"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}